I’m not proud of this one, but I’m guilty too!

Number four mistake: Feeling guilty. Boy, do I know this one! As a single mom, wanting to give my child everything is a natural instinct. If I don’t, the ‘mom guilt’ runs amuck. We need to let go of the thought that we need to give our kids everything. I often hear, “I want to give my kids the things I never had.” I understand this and can relate, but there comes a point where this begins to work against us. If we continue to gift our kids with ‘things’, just because, we are sending the wrong messages. Not always, but oftentimes, these kids begin to feel entitled and will expect that trend to continue. Don’t feel the guilts, instead feel proud that you are teaching your kids invaluable lessons. This is a work in progress for me too, so I completely understand if it comes with some bumps.