Local newspaper covers story on teens and money
September 10, 2010
The Signal, a newspaper in the Santa Clarita Valley, published a great article about teens, money and entrepreneurship. View the online version here:
http://www.the-signal.com/section/45/article/33370/
It is what you say! 3 Tips when talking to your kids about money
August 12, 2010
We’ve often heard the saying, “it’s not what you say, but how you say it that matters.” I agree with that statement; however I have a slight twist to it.
With the present state of the economy, we have watched many families struggle, if not our own family. People are fearful, worried about their future, their kids future, finding a job, paying the mortgage or putting food on the table. As parents, we are concerned that our kids will be traumatized by these experiences and somehow lead a life of ongoing challenges.
The language you use when speaking with your kids can dramatically affect whether they see “challenges or opportunities”, “tests of strength or life as unfair”, “tests of courage or I give up.” Here are three tips that can help you when speaking to your kids.
Tip #1
When the kids are pleading with you to buy something, rather than saying, “we can’t afford that” respond with, “that is not a good use of our money right now.” This statement shifts the mindset from ‘living in lack’ to ‘living with choices.’ We all have choices; we just need to be aware they exist.
Tip #2
Empower your kids by shifting the opportunity to them. In the above example when your kids are asking you to buy something, your response could be something like “what can you do to afford buying this for yourself?” Now your kids have an opportunity to think about how they can make their own money and become independent from mom or dad.
Tip #3
Perseverance in life is a crucial life skill to teach your kids. Whether you are following your dream or getting out of debt, never giving up is a powerful message to give your kids. When talking at the dinner table or on a drive, bring up this important topic and discuss examples in your own world.
Kids are watching you and how you respond to life. Give them the gift of a strong mindset by shifting your own thoughts and beliefs.
Teen Biz Opportunity unlike any other!
August 3, 2010
We parents don’t know it all about money…and its okay!
July 19, 2010
The final mistake that I feel parents are making is not getting educated themselves. A recent Jumpstart Coalition survey showed that “relatively few teachers felt they were adequately prepared to teach personal finance topics.” Parents and teachers, struggle with feeling educated themselves when it comes to financial literacy. It’s no wonder these topics aren’t discussed at home (number one mistake). Some parents are ashamed or embarrassed to admit they don’t know how to balance a checkbook or truly understand how credit cards work. Understand that it’s okay not to know everything, but it’s important to seek help. Reach out and get the education that will benefit both you and your kids. Empowerment and independence is a gift for every family member. Besides, its good for your kids to see that we as parents don’t know everything.
I’m not proud of this one, but I’m guilty too!
June 28, 2010
Number four mistake: Feeling guilty. Boy, do I know this one! As a single mom, wanting to give my child everything is a natural instinct. If I don’t, the ‘mom guilt’ runs amuck. We need to let go of the thought that we need to give our kids everything. I often hear, “I want to give my kids the things I never had.” I understand this and can relate, but there comes a point where this begins to work against us. If we continue to gift our kids with ‘things’, just because, we are sending the wrong messages. Not always, but oftentimes, these kids begin to feel entitled and will expect that trend to continue. Don’t feel the guilts, instead feel proud that you are teaching your kids invaluable lessons. This is a work in progress for me too, so I completely understand if it comes with some bumps.
Teens, money and mistakes
June 2, 2010
This week we’re on to number three!
The number three mistake we as parents are making: Not holding our kids accountable. If your child does something against the household rules, typically there are consequences. Pull on the dog’s tail and you may get bitten. This is how our kids learn right from wrong, good from bad, etc. When it comes to spending money or using credit cards, oftentimes parents come to the rescue. Bailing our kids out of a financial mess, without having them pay the consequences, isn’t holding them accountable. As a parent of a teen myself, I understand how difficult it is to watch our kids ‘fall’, but fall they must, in order to pick themselves back up. Stop rescuing and instead, use the word ‘NO’ more often. Easier said then done, I get that, but start today and they reap the benefits tomorrow.
Number two mistake that parents are making with teaching kids about money!
May 26, 2010
Stop playing the ATM machine!!. Whether your kids want to hit the mall or grab a cup of coffee with friends, it seems the first thing they do is come running to the Bank of Mom or Dad and take a withdrawal. Stop! If they don’t have the cash from their own doing, they just can’t buy what they want to buy. We as parents, myself included, struggle with the desire to be our child’s ‘friend’. As friends we want to do and give in order to please, but as parents, this will backfire. We are doing our kids a disservice if we don’t teach them how to be self reliant. We won’t always be popular with our kids, which is fine. We’re the parents, we’re the disciplinarian. That’s what they need, and deep down, really want.
Watch for number three reason next week! Oh joy :)
Top 5 mistakes parents are making with teens and money: Mistake number one
May 19, 2010
Money is a topic that makes most people cringe. Especially in the present economic climate, it’s generally not a fun conversation to have. I’d like to change that. Some tell me that my mission of teaching financial literacy to teens is similar to turning the Titanic…it’s going to take a long, long time and require a lot of effort.
Fine, we better get moving now then!
Although I prefer to discuss what we as parents are doing correctly, I’ve been asked several times from various people, to talk about what we are doing wrong. Let me start by saying, don’t beat yourself up if you find some of the following issues ring true for you. We are all doing the best we can, so take the information, make the changes that apply and move forward.
Number one mistake: parents aren’t talking! We talk about school, friends, drugs, smoking, sports and more, but never about money. Without question, everything I mentioned above is critical, it’s just not enough. Start the conversation about money over dinner, while driving or when shopping at the grocery store. It doesn’t need to be some heavy, boring talk, which would tune your kids out anyways. The intention is to bring an awareness of spending habits, saving habits, credit card pitfalls, and more, to your child’s radar.
Keep it simple, keep it short. Talk often, listen more.
Stay tuned for next week when I discuss mistake number two!
Fantastic stories by Teen Entrepreneurs
April 27, 2010
I love sharing inspiring articles that I come across. You’ve got to have your kids read this one as well! Enjoy.
Forbes article on kids and money
April 21, 2010
Here’s a great article that Forbes put out recently on kids and money. I thought you would enjoy it. Check it out here:
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